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Posted: Jul 26, 2014 - 8:31pm

When Hearing Voices Is a Good Thing
A new study suggests that schizophrenic people in more collectivist societies sometimes think their auditory hallucinations are helpful.

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Posted: Jun 18, 2014 - 8:02pm

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Doctor.
Mom’s deposition goes viral

 
Ya' damned right.  {#Clap}
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Posted: Jun 18, 2014 - 6:56pm

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Doctor.
Mom’s deposition goes viral

 
Well this makes me teary.  My father did medical research and had a Ph.D. not an MD.  Sometimes he got grief for insisting on being called Dr.  He taught those freaking MDs how to be doctors, for Christ's sake.

And, yeah, much harder from the few women in the field. 
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Doctor.
Mom’s deposition goes viral
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Posted: Jun 13, 2014 - 7:30pm

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Good one.
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Posted: Jun 13, 2014 - 8:04am

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Thank you for posting that article.
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Posted: Jun 11, 2014 - 9:56pm

Brian the Mentally Ill Bonobo, and How He Healed - Alexis C. Madrigal - The Atlantic
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Posted: May 28, 2014 - 5:43am

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So,now from the Friendly Folks who brought us dynamite-nuclear reactors for terrorists!

Thanks guys.Am I missing something and why aren't the B-3s in the air?

 
What you're missing is that this is spam, and you have just perpetuated the spam by quoting the entire damned thing.

Yeah, that's what you're missing here.

And others have already done what you should have, and reported it to Bill.


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Posted: May 28, 2014 - 3:11am

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On August 8, 2011, Dr. Howri Mansurbag, Vice President of Soran University for Scientific Affairs and Dara Maghdid, Deputy Dean of The Science Faculty visited The Mideast Research Center of Lund University, meeting with the officials and Dr. Birzo Alyas, a distinguished researcher at the center.
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So,now from the Friendly Folks who brought us dynamite-nuclear reactors for terrorists!

Thanks guys.Am I missing something and why aren't the B-3s in the air?
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Posted: May 28, 2014 - 2:46am

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What You Can Do

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3. Notice the Connection Between Feelings and Events

5. Practice Mindfulness

 
 of all the things stated, I think these two are the hardest to really come to grips with. We all go through life with a selective view of things. It is how our minds work and this is both a boon and a bane. A selective world view facilitates action, provides a foundation for our opinions and gives us fixed coordinates from which we can operate. But it also means we actively choose not to see certain things, block out other points of view and are resistant to change. 

Most of the people I know suffering from depression are caught between these two poles. They are generally people who are extremely talented, but for whatever reason have come to question their own selective world view. They feel the rug get pulled out from under their feet. It is precisely the rejection of their own selective world view that leaves them susceptible to losing their coordinates and robs them of the ability to weigh things up. You lose the ability to see the relative merits of things and everything turns into a shade of grey. 

I kind of like the connection in the German words "würdigen" (to appreciate something, value it) and "Würde" (dignity). When you lose the ability to appreciate something, you lose your dignity. And when you lose your dignity, you're lost. It's like getting locked out of social discourse. You're left floating out in space all on your own and life loses meaning.

So how to return to the ability to value things and restore dignity but not return to the narrow perimeters of the cardboard box you were living in? How to get back that selective world view that is essential for relative values but retain open-mindedness?  This I think is where mindfulness comes in. It is important to realize that having a position is essential to life. Without it you lose perspective. Yet at the same time having a position necessarily means being selective, choosing to stand, there where you are, for that is how life is.

For me this has two implications:
1. My position is just one of myriad possible other positions. Therefore I must be cautious, humble and treat other positions with as much dignity as I expect for my own. 
2. Yet my position is my home base. I must defend it like a hermit crab adopts a shell for without it I am lost.

The trick to life is reconciling the two. 
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Posted: May 27, 2014 - 9:54pm



Short but informative...

Depression in Men 

(My son recently told me to "Suck it up be a man", when he drove over to help me
apply for SSI benefits. I guess it was too difficult for him and he changed his mind.)
Anyway I there are a number of resources here to help autistic people and disabled
people so I have some coming over this week to help me this this mess he left me
straightened out. I'm pretty sure I'll get it first time around. 
 
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Posted: Apr 8, 2014 - 8:55am

http://www.salon.com/2014/04/07/5_reasons_why_anxiety_is_so_hard_to_manage_and_what_you_can_to_cope_partner/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Have you ever had a friend or family member tell you to “just get over it” when you felt sad or worried? If getting rid of negative emotions is so easy, why is it that more than 21 million children and adults get diagnosed with depression each year and that depression is the leading cause of disability for adults age 15-44? Why is it that 40 million adults in the United States suffer from an anxiety disorder? The truth is we can’t just get rid of negative emotions whenever we feel like it. Sometimes we can distract ourselves or think more positively, but at other times the emotions grab hold of us and cling on.

The reason it is such a struggle to combat negative emotions is that they are there for a reason—to warn us of danger and gear up our minds and bodies for escape or self-protection or to help us withdraw and conserve energy when we face a loss. But sometimes these reactions are unwarranted, too intense, or interfere with effective coping and problem-solving. Below are five reasons why negative emotions are so hard to manage.

1. Your brain is wired for survival, not happiness. That is why it keeps bringing up negative emotions, past mistakes and worries about the future. Because of this wiring, you can get stuck in repetitive cycles of self-criticism, worry and fear that interfere with your ability to enjoy the present moment.

2. It doesn’t work to just shove negative emotions down or pretend they don’t exist. Your mind will keep bringing them up again as a reminder that you have an ongoing problem that needs to be handled (even when there is nothing you can actually do to make it better). Research by Daniel Wegner and colleagues suggests that suppressing thoughts while in a negative mood makes it more likely that both the thoughts and the negative mood will reoccur.

3. Your body and mind react to mental images and events as if they are events happening in the real world. Try thinking about smelling and then biting into a lemon. You will likely feel a change in saliva in your mouth. Now think about putting your hand on a hot stove. Do you feel your heart pounding a bit faster? You can get just as stressed by thoughts about an event as by the event itself. When negative feelings become chronic, they wear out your mind and body, causing inflammation, hormonal imbalance, or impaired immunity.


 

4. Negative thoughts feed on each other. You may worry about not having enough money. Next you think, “What if I lose my job?” Then you wonder you could ask for help and next thing, you’re feeling alone and unsupported. Rumination can turn a controllable problem into a set of insurmountable difficulties.

5. The things you do to avoid or try to cope with feeling negative emotions may be more counterproductive than the emotions themselves. You may turn to alcohol, marijuana, or excess use of prescription drugs to escape feeling bad. These substances can have long-term negative effects on mood and motivation and have addictive properties. Turning to food excessively can lead to overweight or obesity and low self-esteem associated with weight gain. Getting angry and blaming others for your negative emotions can strain your relationships. Retail therapy can lead to debt.

What You Can Do

If suppression doesn’t work, what can you do with sad, angry or anxious feelings? Below are six surprising coping strategies that can help.

1. Allow Feelings In

The feelings will be there anyway, so why not take a look at them? Perhaps they have a message for you about something in your life that needs to change. Perhaps they are a symptom of past, unresolved painful events that need more processing and attention. They may signal strong unmet needs that would be helpful to pay attention to. When you invite emotions in and let them be there, they become less scary and shameful. They will naturally run their course and move on through.

2. Untangle Feelings From Negative Judgments

You may have learned negative messages about emotions from your family or culture. Perhaps you learned emotions are a sign of weakness or that they make you vulnerable and unprotected. As you begin to untangle the feelings themselves from your negative judgments about them, emotions become more palatable. You begin to create more space for them and listen to them more. You become more self-aware of your reactions and of what people and situations are personal triggers.

3. Notice the Connection Between Feelings and Events

Feelings provide information about what you find pleasant or unpleasant; whom you love and whom you fear. Once you understand the connection between events in your life, your thoughts and your feelings, you are better prepared to take good care of yourself and protect your own boundaries. You begin to anticipate how you will react to certain people or events, which allows you to make better choices about how you spend your time. You can anticipate emotionally high-risk situations and prepare coping strategies in advance.

4. Broaden the View

Anxiety and depression make your thinking more rigid—you focus on the negative, which can lead to catastrophizing and magnifying the problem. This makes you feel even more stuck. It can help to deliberately take a step back and to ask yourself if there is a different way to look at the situation, or how an uninvolved observer might see things. Doing something you enjoy instead of worrying can create positive affect that naturally broadens your thinking. This can lead you to come up with more creative solutions that you won’t see when caught up in a negative emotional loop.

5. Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness is both a set of practices and a way of thinking about life that is based on Buddhist traditions that are 3,000 years old. Being mindful means having a gentle, open and accepting attitude toward your own experiences and surroundings, whatever those may be. As Eckhart Tolle, a writer and spiritual teacher, once stated: “Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.” Meditating, focusing on your breath, or taking a nature walk and focusing on the sights, smells, and sounds are good ways to learn how to be mindful. Mindfulness creates a spaciousness of mind that allows emotions to be there without clinging to them.

6. Find Support

Sometimes, emotions can be difficult to manage alone because it’s so hard to step out of your point of view and see things objectively. It can help to get support and feedback from a friend, colleague or family member. Let the person know exactly what you are looking for, whether it is emotional support, information or resources to help. Psychotherapy can provide you with expert guidance, coping strategies and emotional support to calm negative emotions and find clarity and courage to move forward in life.

Although negative emotions are a challenge, there are effective ways to cope. By practicing these strategies, you will become more tolerant of them and less likely to get caught up in downward spirals of gloom and doom.

 

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Posted: Mar 18, 2014 - 4:51am

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I guess that's what I'm getting at. this kid was failed. He wasn't just a monster who should never have been born,

 

Gotcha. 
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Posted: Mar 17, 2014 - 5:18pm

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Here's the thing, and the last thing that I want to do here is Mother bash. This child was tried on ONE medication, and as far as I could tell from the article, that was also the family's only attempt at treatment. He and his mom became increasingly isolated and stopped reaching out.  There was something part and parcel to the mom-kid dynamic here that further exacerbated his symptoms. 

The system did not fail THIS child, although it certainly has failed others.

 
I guess that's what I'm getting at. this kid was failed. He wasn't just a monster who should never have been born,
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Posted: Mar 17, 2014 - 7:15am

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Perhaps some context would make my thoughts more understandable. I'm a single mom of a mentally ill, autistic child. I work in a prison and see adults just like my son who didn't have the benefit of support from family and community and the medical community and it drives me a little nutty. There is really no good system of care for the mentally ill, especially children. Until that changes this stuff will keep happening.

 

Here's the thing, and the last thing that I want to do here is Mother bash. This child was tried on ONE medication, and as far as I could tell from the article, that was also the family's only attempt at treatment. He and his mom became increasingly isolated and stopped reaching out.  There was something part and parcel to the mom-kid dynamic here that further exacerbated his symptoms. 

The system did not fail THIS child, although it certainly has failed others.
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Posted: Mar 16, 2014 - 9:38pm

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Perhaps some context would make my thoughts more understandable. I'm a single mom of a mentally ill, autistic child. I work in a prison and see adults just like my son who didn't have the benefit of support from family and community and the medical community and it drives me a little nutty. There is really no good system of care for the mentally ill, especially children. Until that changes this stuff will keep happening.
 
Some societies do a better job than others, even though there are often no silver bullets for the variety of problems that exist with forms of mental illness. In some cases it may end up as being little more than experimenting with medication to keep things manageable. In other cases, therapies can provide some help/benefits.

However, providing no care or support, by for instance dumping patients in the streets (and consequently in some cases in prisons), will likely help no one and might lead to even bigger tragedies.
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Posted: Mar 16, 2014 - 9:00pm

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He wishes his son had never been born, in hindsight, and in light of all the grief the boy has caused. I think that's understandable.
Peter declared that he wished Adam had never been born, that there could be no remembering who he was outside of who he became. “That didn’t come right away. That’s not a natural thing, when you’re thinking about your kid. But, God, there’s no question. There can only be one conclusion, when you finally get there. That’s fairly recent, too, but that’s totally where I am."
The article points out that he did try to help, but obviously not enough. The mother, and the boy himself, were complicating factors in the story as well. He may have known something was wrong with the boy, but that doesn't mean he can predict the future or the eventual outcome (or even prevent it). Nobody can, not even specialists (as can be read in the article as well).

 
Perhaps some context would make my thoughts more understandable. I'm a single mom of a mentally ill, autistic child. I work in a prison and see adults just like my son who didn't have the benefit of support from family and community and the medical community and it drives me a little nutty. There is really no good system of care for the mentally ill, especially children. Until that changes this stuff will keep happening.
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Posted: Mar 16, 2014 - 6:57pm

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I was really bothered by this father being quoted as saying that he wishes his son had never been born and that he knew for years something was wrong. So were was he? Why didn't he help his kid? And why on earth did they allow themir son access to guns.
 
He wishes his son had never been born, in hindsight, and in light of all the grief the boy has caused. I think that's understandable.
Peter declared that he wished Adam had never been born, that there could be no remembering who he was outside of who he became. “That didn’t come right away. That’s not a natural thing, when you’re thinking about your kid. But, God, there’s no question. There can only be one conclusion, when you finally get there. That’s fairly recent, too, but that’s totally where I am."
The article points out that he did try to help, but obviously not enough. The mother, and the boy himself, were complicating factors in the story as well. He may have known something was wrong with the boy, but that doesn't mean he can predict the future or the eventual outcome (or even prevent it). Nobody can, not even specialists (as can be read in the article as well).
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Posted: Mar 16, 2014 - 6:28pm

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I was really bothered by this father being quoted as saying that he wishes his son had never been born and that he knew for years something was wrong. So were was he? Why didn't he help his kid? And why on earth did they allow themir son access to guns. 
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Posted: Mar 16, 2014 - 5:09pm

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