![]() Temple of Low Men (1988) [ larger cover art ] |
Don't stand around
Like friends at a funeral
Eyes to the ground
It could've been you
And why do you weep
For the passing of ages?
You slip with the back of your hand, you're taking it out on the one you love
I couldn't believe it
And we might still survive
And rise up through the maze
If you could change your life
And never be the same
How long must I wait
For you to release me?
I pay for each mistake
While you suffer in silence
I could still have an easy life
But the lie ain't worth the living
Once more will I hear you say
That we might still survive
And rise up through the maze
If you could change your life
And never be the same
Never be the same
Don't stand around
Like friends at a funeral
Eyes to the ground
Don't suffer in silence
'Cause we might still survive
And rise up through the maze
If you could change your life
And never be the same
(And every time I hear you)
Never be the same
(And every time I mess up)
Never be the same
Never be the same
Never be the same
And every time I hear you
And every time I mess up
Never be, never be, never be, never be the same
| WonderLizard (2,755.46 mi. due east of Paradise) | Posted: Sep 21, 2012 - 07:13 This is a live version. Is it from Farewell to the World or one of the Frenz of the Enz productions? Anyone know? |
| ajlept (Athens, GA) | Posted: Aug 20, 2012 - 21:52 An absolute GEM! The build up to the end of quite moving. Speaking of friends at a funeral....while returning from the deep south to my Grandfather's funeral in Michigan, I'm standing there at the funeral home, during the viewing period the night before with my cousins who reign from Michigan, Oregon, and Boston....I wait for a break in the conversation and ask: "So, what are y'all fixin' to do?" Haven't lived that one down since. |
| peter_james_bond (West Of The Burg) | Posted: Mar 15, 2012 - 16:55 George_Tirebiter wrote: Of all the bands that have been compared to The Beatles, I've found that this one comes closest. Great lyrics, interesting progressions and tight harmonies. Yep, they're that good. I totally agree. They've a history of producing great music. |
| coy (san antonio) | Posted: Feb 12, 2012 - 22:18 wow really got into that the comments helped : )_ |
| Raechel | Posted: May 04, 2011 - 17:45 wish there was a "blech" rating |
| handyrae (Zero Point Field) | Posted: May 21, 2010 - 06:40 This song is truly wonderful. |
| George_Tirebiter (Phoenix) | Posted: Apr 19, 2010 - 12:23 Of all the bands that have been compared to The Beatles, I've found that this one comes closest. Great lyrics, interesting progressions and tight harmonies. Yep, they're that good. |
| Dave_Mack (Five bus, Jive bus!) | Posted: Dec 14, 2009 - 11:53 trekhead wrote: Wow, this starts up just like JAMES—Laid. Yes! I came to see if there were dozens of comments to that effect. Thanks for not disappointing me, Tom |
| annersjen (in the rolling hills of New York) | Posted: May 07, 2009 - 09:29 A very rare not-particularly-interesting song from the Most Esteemed Crowded House. |
| kaybee (Lost in the Wilds of Toronto) | Posted: Mar 05, 2009 - 18:38 This whole album is an 11! I can imagine a lot of people requesting this song be played at their funeral. |
| gjeeg (Syracuse, New York) | Posted: Nov 30, 2008 - 12:02 The anguish... "How long must I wait ??... If you could change your life...." |
| gjeeg (Syracuse, New York) | Posted: Nov 30, 2008 - 12:00 SubLimE !!! |
| ThePoose | Posted: Jun 25, 2008 - 12:06 lmic wrote: Whoa... those drums... thought it was Laid (The Better Than Ezra version) at first!
RIP Paul Hester |
| andrewimft (North Californie) | Posted: May 25, 2008 - 01:40 ![]() |
| out_to_lunch (Philly by way of CT) | Posted: Apr 23, 2008 - 13:34 I'm sorry,but after that set this is just bland, bland, bland. |
| 1wolfy (Mission Viejo California) | Posted: Feb 20, 2008 - 14:00 GREAT |
| teapot (in orbit) | Posted: Dec 19, 2007 - 16:38 NO freaking way! A rare track off one of the best albums ever recorded. Woo Hoo. Love the Tim Finn harmonies... |
| tinybubbles (seattle) | Posted: Jul 15, 2007 - 13:02 someone needs to upload the new album. I think it's fabulous! I tried and couldn't get it to work! |
| Thea (Sacto) | Posted: May 29, 2007 - 15:06 I have a lot of fondness for this one. don't care what Neil says. :) |
| Rickvee (New Orleans) | Posted: May 29, 2007 - 15:04 jsnell wrote: Props for the Crowded House, one of the best bands of all time. Unfortunately, this is one of their worst songs. Even Neil Finn later recanted it. :-)
Agree with this. |
| TerryS (The other SW) | Posted: May 13, 2007 - 18:35 Very average, Edna. |
| Johnny-smooth | Posted: Mar 27, 2007 - 14:24 Oh, this is Bad, real BAD! |
| rluking (Underground) | Posted: Mar 27, 2007 - 14:16 Yeah, I care not how much people here ooze over the brothers Finn, this just ain't that good. |
| PetriWessman (Espoo, Finland) | Posted: Jan 25, 2007 - 04:16 jsnell wrote: Props for the Crowded House, one of the best bands of all time. Unfortunately, this is one of their worst songs. Even Neil Finn later recanted it. :-)
Ummm... what? This is one of the better songs from their best album. |
| mrselfdestruct (Alberta) | Posted: Jan 10, 2007 - 15:18 Marr wrote: If it's true that Neil Finn "recanted" then I would have to disagree with him. I like this one a lot. I'm sure every band starts hating some of their own songs at some point. It doesn't mean that everyone else should feel the same way. |
| Marr (Houston (dreaming of Austin)) | Posted: Dec 12, 2006 - 12:10 jsnell wrote: Props for the Crowded House, one of the best bands of all time. Unfortunately, this is one of their worst songs. Even Neil Finn later recanted it. :-)
If it's true that Neil Finn "recanted" then I would have to disagree with him. I like this one a lot. |
| Land_Shark (Atlanta, GA) | Posted: Dec 12, 2006 - 12:09 jsnell wrote: Props for the Crowded House, one of the best bands of all time. Unfortunately, this is one of their worst songs. Even Neil Finn later recanted it. :-)
Of all time?? Are you Neil Finn?? |
| lmic (Uniondale, NY) | Posted: Oct 29, 2006 - 14:53 Whoa... those drums... thought it was Laid (The Better Than Ezra version) at first! |
| jsnell (Mill Valley, CA) | Posted: Sep 30, 2006 - 09:26 Props for the Crowded House, one of the best bands of all time. Unfortunately, this is one of their worst songs. Even Neil Finn later recanted it. :-) |
| Karmala (Finland (Europe)) | Posted: Sep 01, 2006 - 01:28 Not one of their better songs - yuk! |
| Alexandra (The American Riviera) | Posted: Aug 17, 2006 - 11:24 This is the one Crowded House album I never bought! |
| Old_Pool_Skunk (Get Out) | Posted: Aug 02, 2006 - 19:26 Volume UP. |
| NorthernLad (Elk Lake, Northern Ontario Canada) | Posted: Aug 02, 2006 - 19:26 this song is proof that the communists just don't get it. |
| Daveinbawlmer (Bawlmer, Merlin. Hon.) | Posted: Jul 04, 2006 - 10:58 dkarr wrote: These guys are one of the finest bands ever. Such beautiful songwriting and melodies. Love it. Thanks Bill!
They were a really underappreciated band for sure. |
| bugleboy624 (Princeton, WV) | Posted: Apr 22, 2006 - 12:01 Crowed House has always been a great band. They've scored more than one spot on one or more of my shows. |
| bigstory (Ottawa, Canada) | Posted: Apr 22, 2006 - 12:00 rafterman wrote: Crikey! I never knew Paul Hester was gone. Saw CH several times '91 to '93 - favourite song was always 'Italian Plastic' - one of Paul Hester's ! Might have to go and listen to it now. When and how did he die? He hanged himself, very sad to say. A few months ago. |
| dkarr (Yes) | Posted: Mar 24, 2006 - 05:24 These guys are one of the finest bands ever. Such beautiful songwriting and melodies. Love it. Thanks Bill! |
| ScottFromWyoming (Powell, Wyo.) | Posted: Mar 09, 2006 - 11:06 flandersdog wrote: sadly, that'll never happen now (RIP, Paul Hester). so glad I got to see them in concert back in the day. my favorite band, ever... I hope all the ex-Replacements are in good health/spirits...I can still hold out hope for a 'Mats reunion Bob Stinson died years ago. |
| ajlept (Athens, GA) | Posted: Feb 22, 2006 - 19:20 Second generation Split Enz. Love these guys. The songs get better as time goes on. Neil Finn is a master songwriter. Keep 'em coming! |
| Wes16V (Pullman, WA / Vancouver, WA) | Posted: Nov 12, 2005 - 13:40 Wow... great song. Thanks BillG! |
| Leaf13 (Ontario, Canada) | Posted: Nov 12, 2005 - 13:39 |
| trekhead (Just Missed Me.) | Posted: Oct 14, 2005 - 07:36 Wow, this starts up just like JAMES--Laid. |
| Helchat | Posted: Sep 29, 2005 - 14:54 Mark1970 wrote: Was going to make a similar comment..... BUT seeing Neil solo or with his brother (on this last tour) had moments of that CH magic. You're lucky! I saw them last February at the Palace in SF, but missed them this last summer, as they cancelled this leg of the tour due to Paul's passing.... |
| flandersdog (the sunny Pac NW) | Posted: Jun 03, 2005 - 15:29 rafterman wrote: Crikey! I never knew Paul Hester was gone. Saw CH several times '91 to '93 - favourite song was always 'Italian Plastic' - one of Paul Hester's ! Might have to go and listen to it now. When and how did he die? I love Italian Plastic, too. he hanged himself in March. he always seemed so full of joy and life on stage...I guess he gave it all out and didn't keep any for himself. |
| rafterman (Scotland) | Posted: Jun 03, 2005 - 12:37 flandersdog wrote: sadly, that'll never happen now (RIP, Paul Hester). so glad I got to see them in concert back in the day. my favorite band, ever... I hope all the ex-Replacements are in good health/spirits...I can still hold out hope for a 'Mats reunion Crikey! I never knew Paul Hester was gone. Saw CH several times '91 to '93 - favourite song was always 'Italian Plastic' - one of Paul Hester's ! Might have to go and listen to it now. When and how did he die? |
| Mark1970 (Grayson, GA) | Posted: Jun 03, 2005 - 10:06 flandersdog wrote: sadly, that'll never happen now (RIP, Paul Hester). so glad I got to see them in concert back in the day. my favorite band, ever... Was going to make a similar comment..... BUT seeing Neil solo or with his brother (on this last tour) had moments of that CH magic. |
| flandersdog (the sunny Pac NW) | Posted: Jun 03, 2005 - 10:04 redlinzus wrote: I'll Never Be the Same...
I am still grieving the loss of Crowded House. Seeing Neil Finn is still greatly satisfying, however, Crowded House shows and albums were and are still some of the best musical experiences I have ever had... how about a reunion? sadly, that'll never happen now (RIP, Paul Hester). so glad I got to see them in concert back in the day. my favorite band, ever... I hope all the ex-Replacements are in good health/spirits...I can still hold out hope for a 'Mats reunion |
| DBCinCA (California) | Posted: May 19, 2005 - 18:31 mafe wrote: Yes it was me who rated this song 1.
I can't stand these guys! :P Golly gee. Mystery solved. I'll finally get a good night's sleep. |
| gq (Hannover/Germany) | Posted: Apr 20, 2005 - 11:35 Why did this remind me of (newer) Marillion? :O |
| dkarr | Posted: Mar 07, 2005 - 08:59 Some of the finest musical stylings by CH ever! Neil is a great lyricist but not much for music writing....his bro' is an ace at that. GET BACK TOGETHER! |

