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Ben Folds — Still Fighting It
Album: Rockin' The Suburbs
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Released: 2001
Length: 4:18
Plays (last 30 days): 0
Good morning, son.
I am a bird
Wearing a brown polyester shirt
You want a coke?
Maybe some fries?
The roast beef combo's only $9.95
It's okay, you don't have to pay
I've got all the change

Everybody knows
It hurts to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it, we're still fighting it
And you're so much like me
I'm sorry

Good morning, son
In twenty years from now
Maybe we'll both sit down and have a few beers
And I can tell you 'bout today
And how I picked you up and everything changed
It was pain
Sunny days and rain
I knew you'd feel the same things

Everybody knows
It sucks to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here.
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it, we're still fighting it
You'll try and try and one day you'll fly
Away from me

Good morning, son
I am a bird

It was pain
Sunny days and rain
I knew you'd feel the same things

Everybody knows
It hurts to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here.
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it, we're still fighting it
Oh, we're still fighting it, we're still fighting it

And you're so much like me
I'm sorry
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Possibly my favorite BF song... When he's good he's good.

la la la la la laaaaaaaaaaaaaa
MORE!  MORE!  MORE!
There's something about Ben Folds that makes me like him and his music more than I should.

Wow, meaningful lyrics, nice composition and instrumentation - passable vocals - with those qualities alone this one soars above at least half of the RP cruft.
WTF?
Might I suggest that everyone needs a little Ben Folds, daily.  Dr's RX.
the suburbs say "no thanks".
Today's tidbit of music trivia...he wrote this for his son, Louis, who also appeared in the video for the song. Louis is the older of Ben's twins, with Ben's daughter, Gracie, being the other twin. The twins have different birthdays, due to the fact that Louis was born just before midnight on July 22nd, 1999, while Gracie was born just after midnight on July 23rd, 1999. As obvious by the title, the song "Gracie" (on "Songs for Silverman") was written by Ben for his daughter.


Great song from a truly outstanding album.  Thanks Bill!
natebett wrote:
Pop, but not in a bad way. More in an Ellton john way.

He reminds me more of Billy Joel

Years ago I saw him play The Shelter, a legendary basement venue under the storied St. Andrews Hall in downtown Detroit.  He was opening for Heather Nova, with his full band.  Pennywise was playing upstairs, with full-house chaos, mayhem and noise.  We were truly in fear of the wooden floor upstairs giving way and sending piles of pogoing Pennywise fans pouring through the ceiling. At one point a keg burst upstairs and sent beer flowing over the drum kit from above.  Towels were deployed and the band played on.  Finally Ben got disgusted with trying to play over the deafening racket upstairs.  He grabbed a mic stand, climbed on top of the piano and proceeded to pound the ceiling and scream SHUT UP! SHUT!! UP!!!
It was great spontaneous theater, and hilarious.

theirishtickler wrote:
what genre would you classify ben folds?

Why bother? Labels are for canned goods, baby.

c.

Chopping broccoli! Chopping broccoleeeeeeeehey! 
puke
bubble gum
theirishtickler wrote:
what genre would you classify ben folds?
Pop, but not in a bad way. More in an Ellton john way.
You've gotta listen to the title song from this album...absolutely hilarious and rocking at the same time!!
massagegoddess wrote:
I didn't like this song at first, I love every song Ben Folds has made, but I held out on this one, but it started to resonate with me... about how hard it is to grow up and the part where he says "and your so much like me... I'm sorry" really hit me strong. Kinda the reason I am not having kids... its really easy to mess them up
Yes, you mess them up...at least everyone's parents probably feel guilty about messing up their kids, too
what genre would you classify ben folds?
Nice, but it makes me wanna hear BFF "Underground" - talk about a rockin' tune!
bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh
snowcat wrote:
Kind of has an early Alan Parsons Project vibe to it. I love it.
Nice ear!
Kind of has an early Alan Parsons Project vibe to it. I love it.
I didn't like this song at first, I love every song Ben Folds has made, but I held out on this one, but it started to resonate with me... about how hard it is to grow up and the part where he says "and your so much like me... I'm sorry" really hit me strong. Kinda the reason I am not having kids... its really easy to mess them up
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This song bugs me, and I don\'t know why. I like a lot of what I\'ve heard off of Ben Folds new album, but I just haven\'t been able to get into this one.